The Impenetrable Boundary

Greetings Belovedz.


One of the biggest Gifts of the Universe throughout my healing process...right before and definitely after my nervous breakdown was therapy.


I learned so much about myself in a bit by bit fashion during these sessions over the years.


The beauty of therapy is...the work needed in and for my Lyphe..is mine to do.


Almost NEVER...has the therapist given me a resolution...


They are my coach...giving me the conditioning tools and road maps...but I had to get out there and run the race of my Lyphe.


My FAVORITE companion to this very second...is...The Boss...BOUNDARY...!!!


YES Hunnie!!!...BOUNDARIES...some need one...some need 10 THOUSAND!!!


It is...they are... a beautiful thing...the "Ooops...Don't Dump It Here" theory....or the exercise of "Teach People How to Treat You"...


Boundary is defined by Merriam-Webster as: unofficial rules about what should not be done: limits that define acceptable behavior.


BAYBE...Let the Boundary conditioning begin!!!


Boundaries are (as I was taught) necessary for your internal balance. Anyone/thing breeching your Boundary "threshold" is going to throw your internal balance off.


*Disclaimer*
No one knows what your Boundaries are and won't unless you exercise and express them. PERIOD.
You cannot lash out about any thing/one who has absolutely NO IDEA of what your Boundaries are...K?!?!!!
You've got to first be clear as to what your Boundaries are...recognize the line you need to draw...DRAW IT...dedicate yourself to it...and teacher others about the Boundary we set.


Sis. Lyphe...this sounds a lil selfish...it's boarder line rude...
Beloved...you would be CORRECT!!!


In order for our best selves to be useful to The Universal Energy Force in a positive and magnificent way...you MUST be "Self Centered"...not from a rude nor vain standpoint...but from a Love & Light Self Preserving standpoint.


Self CENTERED or balanced...
what we will accept...what you won't accept...what you will ingest...what we won't ingest...what forces us out of character...what cannot force you out of character...what supports or sponsors our positive charge...what robs you of your positive charge





Example:
Two co-workers are having a disagreement, and each of your co-workers uses you as the sounding board for whatever the issue is instead of confronting each other...you must now decide whether to uncomfortably sit and listen even participate or draw that Impenetrable Boundary line and say..."Talk to the person you're in conflict with"...in other words..."Ooops...Don't Dump It Here."


When you are constantly driven by the thoughts, feelings, actions of others...you are subjecting your balance to someone else's imbalances...when you are uncomfortable with the energy within ANY situation you've got to dig the BOUNDARY trench...get "Self Centered"...


*Disclaimer*
This does NOT mean avoid situations...or disappear in plain sight...


Confront ALL of your life with strength and power and dominion over SELF...only YOU control YOU...this is actually all The Universe requires of us. "Self Centered Control".


Being that you cannot control the energies of those around you...
We MUST preserve, protect, program and prepare our own.


It's important for us as individuals to enhance our LOVE & LIGHT Energy by building Impenetrable Boundaries...


Say what you mean and unapologetically mean exactly what you say...
Stick to your Boundaries and whether our neighbor chooses to subscribe to them with respect or not...WE set the platform for our Inner Existence...WE control the interactivity of either mess or marvel...WE build the stage for what we attract...what we engage with...what we ingest...what we settle for or what we standardize...


Let's regain or obtain balance with healthy...wholesome...
Impenetrable Boundaries.
our best lives depend on it.
#LEGGO...


Ily
#thatisALL.