The Art of "The Limit"

Abundant LOVE, Light & Grace be with you Dear Hearts,

Let's get encouraged by doing some work... 

...#LEGGO...

Upon internal assessment...are you finding that in most cases...

you are an ALL in ALL individual?

What's an "ALL in ALL Individual" Sista Lyphe?

Are you the ONE that's GOT TO BE THE ONE?

Whether you sign up for the job or not...seemingly you are ALWAYS 

 "On Call"

The same one to do everything all the time...

The "ALL in ALL"

*Honest Zone*

I am constantly frustrated due to the fatigue of being everybody's "Everything".

How I got to be this...I wouldn't dare say "I don't know"...because I do.

Ey3 know that all too often I take care of SELF in last place while all others with insignificant banters...selfish agendas...unaware egos...toxic takings...

are basically serving mess on a platter because I have ALLOWED IT. 

I have allowed others to compromise my time...

I have allowed others to invade my space...

I have allowed others to place me on their selfish agendas...

I have allowed my SELF to be the sounding board for toxic speech...

I have allowed my SELF to be arrested by another's justified misconducts...

I have...you have...we have...

But where...when...is "The Limit"?

The Limit begins right here...RIGHT NOW!!! 

As we've discussed in previous engagements...

"The Limit" begins with "The Necessary NO!"

Not speaking "no" more frequently to others initially...but to our SELF first.

*Honest Zone*

My heart is too open...too nice...therefore often suffers blunt force trauma...

Not because I am not teaching others how to treat me...but because I do not dedicate my SELF to "The Necessary No".

Ey3 have to constantly check my SELF in the midst of a silent hissy fit...because whatever...whomever...I am fussing about/with...

I HAVE GIVEN THEIR BEHAVIOR PERMISSION to continue.

Then on the back end...the only one bothered is my SELF...

they/it has satisfaction.

So how do we change this habit Sista Lyphe?

We begin with slowing ourselves down...

Start planning...preparing...positioning for our SELF first...then all that does not fit into the existing/upcoming arena...cannot enter.

I cannot be upset when I abide by my boundaries.

I cannot be bothered when I make a SELF decision and stick to it.

I cannot be pressured if I'm the only one included in my intentions.

Does this mean shut the world out forever? 

Yes and No Beautiful One...

Yes - so that we can commit ourselves to the BEST SELF work needed...any time of day or night...no matter the sacrifice/cost.

No - because not every situation requires "shut down" some just need a loving NO!

That's all Hunny Pots...NO...

Selfishness and childlike minds will attempt manipulation and guilt trips...and that's okay...because our "NO" game is Teflon STRONG Hunny!!!!

NO...is a single word sentence.

NO...requires no explanation.

NO...excepts no rebuttal.

NO...is not a segway for debate.

NO MEANS NO. PERIOD. 

Instead of trying to get others to understand...let us speak to SELF regularly...

Reminding our SELF 

My LOVE to "The Limit"

My Light to "The Limit"

My space to "The Limit"

My time to "The Limit"

My heart to "The Limit"

My thoughts to "The Limit"

My EVERY THING...has a LIMIT...and this too is OKAY.

LOVE your BEST SELF with LIMITS...they will treat us kinder than living on the edge.

My LOVE for you is boundless

Make sure your SELF LOVE is untouchable.